Men ideally are the builders and bricklayers behind the foundation of love and intimacy (credit: pinterest)
Men with seeds of love in their hearts search through diverse lands to sow their seeds until they finally find the land-owner who accepts them but many times not without hesitation; threat and intimidation sometimes and ‘promissory notes’ at times. And the landowner may finally becomes the landlady.
Relationship is a step, many steps and strides which finally culminates in marriage, anniversaries and self-actualization.
Dating and courtship to many (maybe most) couples are trips which peak in honeymoon, but marriage proper is a journey.
But you’ve got the tools, skills to turn your marriage to trips and not necessarily journeys bearing in minds that trips are adventures but journeys might not.