How You Contribute to Domestic Violence.

A honest and caring heart seeks peace which is password to love and bliss.

How You Contribute to Domestic Violence’ tries to clue you on the fact that domestic violence many times is a choice for we contribute to it or fail to take decisive steps against it.

Saying no to domestic violence actually, truly begins with you, yes by not giving or receiving. As a man don’t use your fists to settle scores maybe begin discussion or end arguments. As a woman don’t let your mouth push you into that depth you can’t swim. Continue reading How You Contribute to Domestic Violence.

Let’s Talk About Fruits.

Fasting is incomplete without fruits. (credit:

Fruits are our health’s best friends and one good thing about Ramadan and Lenten season is that apart from fasting which is cleansing and healing many times we say no to alcohol and drugs – another good; and we also break our fast with fruits – yet another good!

The neighbour of good in life is good you know. Continue reading Let’s Talk About Fruits.

‘Serena Williams Belongs to … Ethnic Group of Nigeria.’

Tennis legend Serena Williams in her element. (credit: REUTERS/Carlo Allegri)

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You don’t know Serena Williams from Adam … now as a Nigerian if you come face-to-face with her in one of the cities in Nigeria and you’re to guess her ethnicity which tribe will you file her and why?

Fortunately Serena was in Nigeria in 2012 … now your perception and prediction of Serena’s ethnic group is about you not her and it says a lot about your experiences, beliefs, feelings, stereotypes …. Continue reading ‘Serena Williams Belongs to … Ethnic Group of Nigeria.’

‘Staying fertile While Contesting With Infertility.’

2015. Kenya Moore – Miss America 1993, actress, TV personality and entrepreneur. She seems to be rehearsing her baby bump.

Perceiving Your Issues From Another Perspective:

Did you know that some people marry basically for companionship and practise protected sex just to avoid children?

And that’s the same child(ren) you wanted so badly, so desperately that you put yourself in the mood, mode that won’t make babies want you? Continue reading ‘Staying fertile While Contesting With Infertility.’

Bedtime Café (The Silent Bed-mate)

Many of us are guilty of this crime yet we are never arrested. (credit: social media)

And we end up giving our phones injuries and they are subsequently admitted at the engineer’s clinic and we end up paying the hospitals bills but we don’t change because the following night or maybe few nights after we’d repeat the same thing.

But when we attack our phones they fight back in self-defense – radiation which is bad for our health.

While you sleep please give your phone space to breathe, for the overall health of master and servant. 

My Take on Abortion.

Expectant couple. Super Eagle’s player William Troost-Ekong with his intimate.

I don’t know if abortion is silencing an unborn baby or sending the guest back to where he came from but if you’re euphemistic by nature you’re likely to choose the latter option but that doesn’t blindfold the fact that a potential baby had been denied opportunity of life.

Osmond owed Desmond some money and when the latter came to ask the former for his money it degenerated into serious arguments. Continue reading My Take on Abortion.

In Retrospect.

Food is a very essential part of life that humanity can’t do without. ( credit: REUTERS/Amr Alfiky – RTS18IK6)

We take many things in life for granted until circumstances deprive us of them … as Ramadan begins tomorrow many Muslims who had hitherto seen food and access to same, as the norm and no big deal will suddenly realize that food is a luxury item they had been taking for granted for long.

In the same vein students in the middle of exams see sleep as luxury just as Christians who fast religiously during the Lenten season see food as gold. Continue reading In Retrospect.

Untold Mum-Baby Domestic War.

This is expectation in human person.

@ image: when your baby sees you rubbing something on your breasts and feels you were adding sugar and honey to his milk so it could tastes sweeter and he’ll enjoy his meal better.

And so his bliss climbed to the top of Mount Everest but did it lasts there? Maybe, maybe not! Time that will tell is loading …. Meanwhile his friend, age-mate and also neighbour just received his sack-letter from his mum and his salary (aka milk) aborted.

more pics and info ahead Continue reading Untold Mum-Baby Domestic War.