Work vs Family.

Babies, kids of nowadays are smarter, they feel and think better.

It’s good to upgrade your life, to add life to your bank accounts, have investments here and there, savings as insurance … but as you hustle to and fro trying to execute those deals, make profits, please pause and ponder a bit, think of the little ones you have in your cradle at home.

Do what they’ll be proud of, be source of blessings, contacts … to them and even when you’re no more your good name will pave way for them. Continue reading Work vs Family.

Bride for Life.

Brides are gorgeous. (Image credit:Pinterest)

Brides are celebs at their weddings and the centre of their homes so be the bride not just for a day but a lifetime!

Be the queen of your home, the evergreen bride of your hubby. Upgrade your life, update your skill set.

Remember you’ve got the divine mandate to nurture the next generation and babies in your hands are adults tomorrow.

Be an adorable mum!

Putting Your Children in Your Plans.

Students of Thames Valley College at the UI  Zoo.

As responsible parents I’m sure you’re very painstaking and detailed about what your children (babies, toddlers, preteens, teens … ) feed on. Yes instructions and meals but the latter is for another day!

Create time for them this weekend or some other time. Remember you’re their first and life-long teachers and great teachers not only instil instructions they put the thirst for knowledge in their mentees and motivate them to go research to quench the thirst and the good news is the more they know the more they want to know.
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Sending Foreplay Over Miles.

Sex starts with foreplay which could begin in the mind and bed, couch … hosts the grand-finale (photo credit: social media)

The fact that the human mind is the site of sex is big opportunity for you to make love to your spouse while you guys are miles apart.

Prepare bacon for her via text messages and her mind will grab and hand over the baton to her body long before you meet.

Brag, and tantalize your hubby hours before you finally meet and he’ll think more of you thereby adding spice and honey to your sessions under the sheet. Continue reading Sending Foreplay Over Miles.

The Wisdom in Caution.

Late Nigerian heroine Dr. Stella Ameyo Adadevoh.

Patients with infectious health challenges sometimes transmit to their healthcare-givers and if the disease has high mortality rate the infected may not survive as it happened in the pathetic case of Dr. Stella Adadevoh, may God rest her soul.

Sometimes both patient and caregiver die and in some cases the patient may survive while the medic dies or vice-versa but in Patrick Sawyer-Stella Adadevoh case neither survived!


What happens in medical facilities could be experienced in spiritual environments as well, to this end clerics need your prayers, advice and moral support. Continue reading The Wisdom in Caution.

‘Unsung Heroes of Love.’

‘Welcome to life kisses,’ is a battle with stench.

Love is strong beer which is very potent and efficacious at the early stages of intimacy. Yes the alcohol content in love intoxicates big time and could make a man misbehave.

It blurs the senses and could make a woman see strengths where everyone including the baby in the womb are seeing red flags, lapses and loopholes.

Sleep is awesome, wholesome and very refreshing but you wake up manufacturing odour in cartons. Now a man who wakes his woman with kisses deserves awards for being a champion who could wrestle stench, capture and imprisoned skunk which is applicable to a woman who does same. Continue reading ‘Unsung Heroes of Love.’

Coping Strategies that Negate Health and Wellness.

Many men visit pubs to socialize and some do to numb their pains. (pic credit: Shutterstock)

We all want to be happy, enjoy good health, savour peace of mind, have loyal friends, lovely family, and money to add honey and spice to all these variables.

But when it looks like we’ve failed we feel let down, bile bites and pours its venom in our minds thereby making our bliss hiss and we become low in spirit, moody, pensive maybe irritable and we’re likely to devise various strategies, mechanisms to weather the storms. Continue reading Coping Strategies that Negate Health and Wellness.

The 80-20 Rule of Marriage.

Ghanaian hip-hop act Kwame Nsiah-Apau (aka Okyeame Kwame) with his bosom friend and wife, Annica Nsiah-Apau. (image credit:gc)

The 80-20 Rule of Marriage is a theory that highlights the fact that you don’t get all your desires in your partner in marriage and focusing on the loophole (20%) of your partner makes you crave the 20% that’s missing which makes you feel it’s 80% and going after such puts you at risk of losing the 80 … and you finally discover that you left 80 for 20. How pathetic!

In a nutshell the rule highlights the fact that couples sometimes ignore the massive strengths (80%) of their partners and focus on the shortcomings (20%) thereby making a mountain out of a molehill and losing out in the end.
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Taking Proactive Steps in Your Family.

Life is full of roses and thorns and when thorns surround you or your family seeing a specialist should top your ‘to-do-list’ (credit: Thinkstock)

The media is awash with suicide, suicide attempts and rumours of suicide because suicide is becoming unbecoming and you need to be smart and sensitive to know when you need to go see specialists and/or refer your significant others to them.

When (maybe if) a family member is going through egregiously tough, rough time, apart from being available to support and comfort, many times you need to take such to healthcare facilities for prompt interventions.

Murder of a family member could trigger suicide in another … there are also cases of homicide-cum-suicide whereby someone kills another and commits suicide afterwards and many other crimes.