‘Means To An End.’

couple-in-bedSex often hands the baton to sleep.

Exhaustion or tiredness doesn’t correlate with sex but if you’re tired yet sleep keeps playing hard-to-get, you may not count sheep after all!

Employ sex, she will hire sleep just to work for you while she goes on vacation and believe me, sleep will labour for 6 to 8 hours nonstop!

Nonetheless calm and relaxing sex will likely do the magic!

Means to an end is what you need to do (regardless of how tasking or demanding) just to achieve your desired results.

So when you’re tired sleep tops the table of your priorities and sex comes last but life is so ironic that you could use the last (sex) to achieve the first (sleep.)

Who Says You’re Innocent!

Depressed Businessman
Until we unlearn and relearn transformation might be a mirage.

He had a grandfather (Pa. Komolafe) who was a lover of humanity and a pan Africanist to the core. Pa Komolafe instilled positive virtues in his grandson, Olaotan Kosoko who I labelled Lobatan Kosoro.

He’d visited his grandparents regularly especially during the holidays and right from childhood he became a shining light. He adored loyalty, honesty; endorsed  diligence, equity, fair play … and detested oppression, corruption and marginalization.

He disliked fairly-used things as well, for he believed he wasn’t inferior to anybody to be using his used products and often boasts that he never bought or used any okrika item. Continue reading Who Says You’re Innocent!

Self-esteem and Confidence are not for Sale!

lovers(Image: pinterest) Self-esteem is fragile yet you need it intact, healthy and active to be successful and fulfilled in life.

Give a woman beauty and give her self-esteem, self-pride and confidence; give a man money in lieu of beauty and see him turn to Mr. Confidence!

Perhaps he hitherto had low or no self-esteem, believe me his self-pride and esteem will soar sky-high. But self-pride, self-love and confidence are not bought with beauty nor money!

If you believe you’re gorgeous so are you and if you feel otherwise that’s ticket to misery but remember no man or woman can make you feel inferior except you allow their password open your mind to dump refuse therein!

Money or beauty or the lack of it shouldn’t dictate your bliss and peace in life!

Your Better-Half!

Gold key unlocking a gold lock. Isolated on white with clipping path.
Gold key unlocking a gold lock.

The Holy book says, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God and every other thing shall be added unto you.”

Did you know that there’s a specific partner for you in life? Seek God concerning him or her and let God guide you on your journey in locating him or her.

Every lock has a particular key that opens it, your heart has a particular person that can open it and that person is your better-half, life-partner, bosom friend, soul-mate, associate, guardian angel.

And if you find such, wonderful things in life will be added unto you. Key understands its lock hook, line and sinker and of course they are highly compatible, perfectly matched because they are made for each other – so it is with that person made to be your life-partner. Continue reading Your Better-Half!

Clerics and Fashion Icons.

Ibidun Ighodalo IIIIbidun Ighodalo of Trinity House.

They are wives of clerics – pastors, bishops …. they are clerics as well. Of course they are blessed with beauty, brains and brawn.

They are the wonderful women supporting their husbands, complementing them, giving strengths to their weaknesses and growing the vineyard and of course they are fashion icons any day.

Nigerian comedians have ‘CV’ replete with gorgeous women (wives); Nigerian clerics are not bench-warmers in that respect as well. They were smart in perceiving beauty laced with brains and their ministries boast of pretty and wonderful women!

(more pics and info if you proceed) Continue reading Clerics and Fashion Icons.

Your Beliefs

challenge-your-beliefsYour beliefs at times could be ticking time bomb.

Your beliefs could make or mar you so what do you believe or disbelieve? Did you know that your beliefs say a lot about your personality!

Danladi Danlami was an interstate commercial bus driver who believes so much in the efficacy of the potion Baba Alakija in Ikeja gave him. Big insurance against HIV and other STIs, right?

But if the charm fails to kill spermatozoa and couldn’t stop you from getting a woman pregnant, don’t you think it may similarly fail to protect you from STIs? Continue reading Your Beliefs

Offender vs Offended.

Fingers-pointing-1-away-3-at-youBefore pointing accusing fingers at someone please spend some time to clean them.

Many times in life people who expressly paint others in bad colours are usually guilty of same and interestingly the accused could be innocent.

Four friends – Glory, Gloria, Victory, Victoria were conversing under a mango tree one cool August evening but lo and behold one of them jumped up and covered her mouth and nose, “Someone had farted,” she exclaimed. Continue reading Offender vs Offended.

The Secret in Bones.

miraclesThe omniscient God is at work 24/7.

God created Eve from Adam’s ribs and again God brought back to life (in the valley of dry bones) those whose life had gone but their bones were the only thing left. Passive lives in the bones meet with active life (breath) from God and human lives exploded in consequence.

God could choose to be a magician or a miracle worker; however bones are linked to human lives perhaps because life is in the blood and blood is in the bones, in other words red blood cells and some other blood cells are made in the bone marrow!

God is an omniscient being and He alone understood every riddle and puzzle in life and beyond but he blessed humanity with brains which birth ideas and innovations!


Lesson for Couples.

Hard to getChallenges in marriages are comparable to storm at sea. You don’t jump into the sea to calm the storm.

If you’ve issues in your home and marriage trash and dump in the waste bin.

Social media isn’t the platform for broadcasting your grievances.

Washing your dirty linen in public is embarrassing much less washing it on Third Mainland Bridge in traffic gridlock in broad daylight!

In life you’ll always have loyalists and antagonists regardless of whether you’re guilty or not! So going on social media to canvass for support, seek army of loyalists, garner pity-party is bad, unfair, dirty!
Continue reading Lesson for Couples.

Time Snails but actually Cheetahs!

Julius AgwuAdorable father, Julius Agwu looking down at his amiable son. Give father and son some years and you’ll experience the reverse. Yeah the small boy would finally dwarf his ‘big’ dad.

Parents want their children to supersede them in all aspects of life even in height. That’s why a diminutive man would prefer an average or tall woman and a petite woman would desire him tall.

You don’t see your children grow physically though you see them everyday but over a period of time the little growths accumulate and they begin to look down (literally) at you because they’re taller. Continue reading Time Snails but actually Cheetahs!