Money Issues

MIFinancial issues like sex, sends marriages to the electric chair faster than most variables which trigger separation or divorce.

Money is a celebrity, a news maker, noisemaker it triggers sensations everywhere it goes. We follow on twitter, friend on facebook, access on Google … assess on Instagram yet we’re never tired of it. It has the potential to split one heart (in marriage two hearts are one) into two and a home into two houses. Money issues are cantankerous referees; they give red cards to marriages at the speed of lightning.

A man or woman who’s not financially literate would likely have problems with his or her spouse. That’s why singles should mature financially before venturing into marriage. If you’re a spendthrift and your partner is financially literate please let him or her manage your finances, better still open a joint account. Impulsive spending could be a sign of an underlying malady, perhaps depression. Continue reading Money Issues

Your Personality

Lovers-love-31878829-524-482No two individuals the world over have the same personalities.

Your cognition, emotions and actions make up your personality. On a narrow basis, it’s who you truly are not who you pretend, think or say you are but on a broader note personality encompasses your history, future, dreams, fears, health, strengths, weaknesses, sexuality, faith, fate, beliefs, physical features, socioeconomic status and its trappings, the list is endless.… It’s our real and ideal self.

A man or woman might (regularly) deck very clean clothes but his underwear is a 7-star hotel to cockroaches and rats so they’re ready to pay handsomely to pass the night. Her dirty bra, his stinking boxers represent his personality and likewise her posh denim trousers and his crisp polo shirt. Continue reading Your Personality

Friendship in Intimate relationships.

Expectant CoupleFriendship is the heart of healthy marriages.

Love is not enough for your relationship to succeed but if friendship, patience, trust, understanding … are members of love then it’s all it takes.

Many variables stab marriage-relationship in the heart: financial problems, bed and kitchen issues, in-laws palaver, intellectual, social or spiritual mismatch and the like. Therefore hone your problem-avoiding skills as well as your problem-solving skills for a fulfilling relationship.


‘Who Told You?’

PensiveOne weekend a lady by name Cheryl visited her fiancé, Dean. Dean who was very romantic wanted to surprise his fiancée with a gift so he told her to wait for him while he goes out for something. Not long after, Dean’s new catch, basically for short-term pleasures, Pamela, sauntered in but not before answering piercing questions from Cheryl. Cheryl stood by the door observing and assessing her for some seconds as she walked in.

Dean, his fiancée and girlfriend were all African-Americans. Cheryl was streamline shaped, fair-skinned, slim-faced with an imposing height of 5’10; Pamela on the other hand was quite beefy, ebony-skinned and 5’1 in height. They were both blessed with good looks. Both of them were watching musicals but deep, very deep in diverse thoughts. These are their secret thoughts: Continue reading ‘Who Told You?’