15 Days to Christmas!

Families celebrate Christmas and Christmas celebrates families. (credit: social media)

It’s 15 days to Christmas and I can perceive her fragrance in the air.

May this Christmas be lovely, lively for your family and friends.

May it be refreshing and interesting for your loved ones.

May all your dreams and desires raps your door and embrace your heart.

Merry Christmas from all of us @ olayemiogunojo.com


Voices at Weddings (VAW). (CHILE 2014) II

Nigerian Singer-cum songwriter Oritsefemi with his better-half, Nabila


Chinyere Ofurum weds Kelechi Awurum

At the Wedding Reception of CHILE 2014:

Otunba Koleoso (aka Otunba Alert) is the younger brother of the chairman of the occasion at Kelechi and Chinyere’s wedding, and he had gone to the reception with his friend, Mr. Adeyanju (Oyinbo elepo) he was fair-skinned and into oil & gas business).

The two men had attended the event basically to scout for oloshos (promiscuous ladies who date rich, especially married men) and the two men were at the car-park of the reception hall.

Otunba Alert: (looking at the wedding booklet) what a small world! Scorpion, take a close look at the bride. Continue reading Voices at Weddings (VAW). (CHILE 2014) II

Voices at Weddings (VAW).

Oritsefemi Majemite Ekele with his sweetheart Nabila Fash

Chinyere weds Kelechi (CHILE 2014)

Chinyere Ofurum (25) weds Kelechi Awurum (30)

Weddings often births more weddings because many eligible bachelors and bachelorette gravitate to celebrate with their family, friends and loved ones. Now if your friend is getting married while you’re still single you’re motivated to get serious as a man or woman and when your seriousness meets with the passion (to get married) of others dating begins in earnest.

Mature ladies usually lower their guards at weddings and releasing their mobile lines need no long lines, in fact, you don’t even need lyrics to access such!

Chinyere met Kelechi at the wedding of Ada’s colleague (Princess) who married a true-life prince and became a princess once again. By the way Ada was Chinyere’s elder sister. Continue reading Voices at Weddings (VAW).

Versions of Sex.

A home filled with love and lovemaking is a blessed marriage. Bliss and peace peak in such homes. (pic source: shutterstock)

Rape is sex, so is lovemaking and conventional sex.

Rape is pains and pressure for one and pleasure for the other but it often baffles me how someone could source pleasure while simultaneously afflicting and inflicting physical and emotional pains on another, pains with potential to last a lifetime.

Conventional sex is the most common but lovemaking is usually sex in marriage and again sex where both parties receive and release pleasure. It’s sex at its height, give-and-take communication, team and selfless sports. Continue reading Versions of Sex.

The Power of the Mind.

2017 Mr. Ugly, Zimbabwe (pic source: social media)

When I first accessed William Masvinu on social media I was like “He’s not bad how come he’s won Mr. Ugly (Zimbabwe) for about three times?”

William of course is a celeb and his fame, fortune … is evolving and believe me those variables would suffocate the label ‘ugly’ hovering over him. In fact ‘Mr. Ugly’ will add to him rather than diminish him. He lost the crown last year and won it back this year. Can’t wait to see him in movies.

He pontificated, “No one can dispute that I am the ugliest person in Zimbabwe,” he was quoted after winning the title. “I now want to take my ugliness outside the country. If there is Mr Ugly World, I am confident I will bring the crown to Zimbabwe.”

What a noble cause, great project to facilitate self-love, confidence …. Continue reading The Power of the Mind.

Self-Fulfilling Prophesy in Relationships.

You’ve got to have some things in common in life to cherish your love much more. (credit: BellaNaija)

Self-fulfilling prophesy is the typical behaviour of a person that highlights as well as bring to reality the beliefs, stereotypes, ideology we hold in our minds of something, someone and events.

Now if you belief (stereotype) that all men are promiscuous and your hubby would someday become unfaithful, this cognition will click your conscious mind and cling to your subconscious thereby reducing your motivation and performance which is synonymous to reduction in the quantity and quality of sex you offer as well as the pleasure you release and receive. Continue reading Self-Fulfilling Prophesy in Relationships.

‘Your Ex and Next Matter a lot’.

Actors, Nadia Buari and Jim Iyke. Good times shared as friends or lovers is like Christmas the memories come and go (credit: NaijaLoaded)

‘Your Ex and Next Matter a lot’ admonishes us on the need to thread the path of love with caution.

Don’t burn your ex; the fire could boil your ‘next’!

When a man and a woman meet and fall in love it’s not bad celebrating your love on social media if you both are convinced that it will add to your union.

However, if it never works out in the end, remember the good times you shared, your friendship and camaraderie and respect all that. 

Tearing yourself apart on social media will afflict your ex and affect your ‘next’ don’t premise your next relationship on permutations – “Would (s)he do the same thing to me if our relationship failed in the end?” Continue reading ‘Your Ex and Next Matter a lot’.

Beards Manufactured by Nigerian Senior Citizens.

Former Head-of-State (Nigeria) Abdusalami Abubakar.

Gen. Abdulsalam (rtd) left governance and military and came back with his beard which has since been his trademark and logo.

These Nigerian leaders are senior citizens and have been sporting their beards for years. In fact some of their beards are older than many Nigerian youths who are proud members of the movement ‘Beard Gang’.

That tells you that though the beard culture might be trending it’s an age-long tradition though the motivation behind some was activism and campaign for positive change and the like.

(more pics and info if you proceed) Continue reading Beards Manufactured by Nigerian Senior Citizens.

Cristiano Ronaldo (CR7) Wins His 5th Ballon D’Or.

Football legend Cristiano Ronaldo (CR7) posing with the prize of his sweat (credit: AFP)

CR7 wins his fifth Ballon d’Or last night December 7, 2017. He’s now at par with Lionel Messi, another football legend!

For 10 years now football legends Lionel Messi and CR7 have been sharing Ballon d’Or between themselves – testament to the fact that there can be two captains in a ship but while one sails the other snails in sleep.

We @ olayemiogunojo.com wish you more success and exploits in love and life.