The Nnamdi Obolis (Our African Couple 2015)

The Obolis 2 Dating is fantasy, marriage reality. So couples in intimate love and red-hot romance years into their unions deserve awards!

Nnamdi isn’t a make-believe loverboy and Omoni isn’t the fictitious lover who acts love scenes in movies, voice love lyrics in music videos but the first to betray same in real life.

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First Class v Second-Class Upper Brains

Olona TolaTola Olona Part 3 Faculty of Agric UNILORIN

Question: Difference between first class brains or certificate and second-class upper brains?

“Companies generally rate first class students much more than second-class upper students but what they actually need is performance and excellence on the job not the certificate per se! So these days they’ve realized that papers don’t translate to performance. They need excellence on the job and not necessarily excellent certificates.”

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African Footballer of the Year.

pierre-emerick-aubameyangPierre Emerick Aubameyang with his coveted prize.

He’s the first Gabonese to clinch the biggest football prize in Africa. Proudly powered by the Confederation of African Football (CAF) otherwise known as CAF’s African footballer of the Year Award.

Aubameyang plays for Borussia Dortmund of Germany and Gabon National Football team.

Born on June 18 1989 in France.

Congrats and more power to your elbow, from all of us @ olayemiogunojo.com.

Talking but not Communicating.

Chatting coupleI vote for Open and Honest Communication.

It’s possible for you to be talking but not communicating but difficult for you to be communicating but not talking though there are many nonverbal talking (better still communication.)

Couples could be born conversationalists (talkativeness preferably) yet not communicating. If you talk about everything in the world without being honest then you’re not communicating!

If you pretend you’re on top of the rainbow by feigning ‘O’ to please him you’re not communicating! Continue reading Talking but not Communicating.

‘Life is in the Hair.’

pregnant-coupleShe’s got life and nurturing another inside her.          

There are many theories in life but few laws. In other words few things are fixed, rigid, certain unchangeable but many are not!

I question every thing I access which makes me assess painstakingly. If the Holy Books say ‘Life is in the Hair,’ I’ll question just as I assessed the popular lines Life is in the Blood. That popular statement is not only factual but a rigid law in life!

If life was in the hair why do we cut and trash yet live and live? Life is indeed in the blood! Life is anchored on monthly period of women, blood flow to the genitals in both genders during sex. 

A 30-year-old woman who hasn’t discovered sex and still intact is brand new and still straight from the factory just like a brand new car kept in your garage!

When a man loses blood uncontrollably, his life is in danger because life is in the blood. The patient being transfused with blood in the hospital is engaged to life and trying to wed same.

Blood flow in the labour room before life comes out, blood flows out of traumatized victims before life absconds.

Sex is for pleasure and procreation and virgins most times lose blood. The prize of initiation into the world of sex, the world of life. Don’t forget sex often lead to conception and conception is SMS from a JJC who God paid his 9-month rent and so got a blissful, peaceful accommodation in a biological duplex inside yet outside our world! Continue reading ‘Life is in the Hair.’

Education as Gift to Families and Nations.

School childrenStudents learning in their classroom.

A family with many illiterates is a poor family! A rich man or woman amongst many struggling people is poor. A nation with many illiterates is a poor nation!

Education gives you better opportunities in life where illiteracy would never! Education is a bouquet of greater (quantitative) opportunities; a package of better (qualitative) opportunities.

Opportunities come but once maybe for illiterates and not for lettered people! The only educated man in a family may call the shots and probably marginalize others but when many are educated, they know their rights and are able to fight for same. Continue reading Education as Gift to Families and Nations.

Leaping Hearts

proposalProposals don’t really surprise women, she had been waiting and expecting it long before you decided to pitch your tent with her.

“There is something revolting about the way girls’ minds so often jump to marriage long before they jump to love.”  – Dodie Smith (I Capture the Castle.)

Her beliefs on love and dating are comparable to coconut but you felt groundnut so you were slaving, struggling and sweating to date her and she seems to be an unexpectedly hard nut to crack maybe the missing formula … to solve a ‘lovmatical’ problem but she’d likely made up her mind to marry you while you were thinking of dating her!

Because she’d made up her mind early enough she will feel the pains and aches in suspense while she waits impatiently for your proposal as well.

Equations balanced but what a big gulf between men and women in love world!

Honest Love-Behaviours

Kissing rancicsThe kissing Rancics. American Media Couple Bill and Giuliana Rancic.

“Kissing – and I mean like, yummy, smacking kissing – is the most delicious, most beautiful and passionate thing that two people can do, bar none. Better than sex, hands down.” – Drew Barrymore.

If I’m to recommend a magic formula to an ailing marriage, undoubtedly it’s kissing. Kisses are honest and sincere, they don’t pretend! Couples can have sex and still be miles apart but not with kisses.

Kisses are great love-medicines. Kissing each other regularly establishes loyalty, fidelity, warmth, love, friendship and rapport! It heals hurts and pains and usher in bliss and peace.

The wife or husband who had extramarital sex hours back may not think twice before sleeping with his or her partner but will be reluctant to kiss (especially the French version) or even reject it outrightly.

Have you kissed your spouse today?

Choose Empathy!

Bride-and-Groom yesDate only the (wo)man you can marry!

“I stopped looking for a Dream Girl, I just wanted one that wasn’t a nightmare.” – Charles Bukowski (The Captain is Out to Lunch and the Sailors Have Taken Over the Ship.)

If you don’t date who you can’t marry (nightmarish person) then you give yourself narrower and better opportunity.

Humans are unpredictable by nature but try and fall in love with someone who’s empathetic. He comprehends your feelings seamlessly, connects with your spirit effortlessly and able to align with your emotions. Empathy is intellectual response; sympathy: emotional reaction.

If you give your best to an empathetic woman you know you’ll get nothing less than her best, note that you could enjoy her very best!

Choosing a partner who’s God fearing is crucial same with one who is empathetic – too important to be toyed with!

You won’t get below your investment!