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Fatherhood with Pastor Tunde Bakare.

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In an interview The Serving Overseer of The Latter Rain Assembly, Pastor Tunde Bakare had with Punch Newspapers he shares his mind on the journey called fatherhood.

How tough was the task of raising children?

I am grateful to two women who made the task easy, my wife who turned her back on her banking career to stay with our kids and the second person is my mother. She ensured her values were communicated to them. God helped us. It is a miracle to raise a proper child because of peer pressure. A child you do not train properly will sell the houses you are building. Fatherhood is an awesome responsibility. If you can’t raise a child; don’t bring them into the world. And the responsibility of training children shouldn’t be passed to mothers. Fathers should train their children.  The role a father plays in the life of a child is different from a mother’s role. I’m pained when I see homes without fathers.

 How do you spoil her?                     

After I proposed to my wife, another man was also interested in her. One day, I went to her house on foot while the other man drove to her house in a Mercedes Benz, but she still chose me. On one of my trips to Germany, I bought her a Mercedes Benz. I personalised the number plate for her and presented it to her. I told her I appreciated her accepting me when I had no car.

You have been married for a long time. What is the secret of a successful marriage?

To be honest with you, I have not been married for a long time. Our marriage is only 33 years, it is short. I married my wife when I was 30. I told her I would be with her for 60 years and then leave the planet and tell her to continue (smiles). But the secret to having a successful marriage is mutual respect, trustful give and take and understanding of each other’s needs. Marriage is not man’s idea. It is God’s idea.

Culled in part from Punch Newspapers.

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