Embarking on Self-Discovery Mission.
Many people in life know others more than they comprehend their own brands; they spend their resources (time, energy, cognition) processing the behaviours, lifestyle of others.
As a life coach I’ll advise you to spend time on yourself. Be an explorer, self-explorer in this context and believe me you’ll discover many things that will help your romantic life and other relationships you’re into. You might discover some people you need to open the gate of your life to and those you need to close the gate and deny access.
You might find answers to many puzzles in your life. You might need to apologize to some people, seek guidance from trusted and tested persons in your family or society – parents, relatives, elders, clerics …. Don’t ever ignore the services of therapists – counsellors and the like.
In knowing the person in the mirror better, you’ll be smarter. In discovering, discerning your brand you’re championing the cause of a new you, a better you! You’ll see and possibly understand some positive and negative patterns in your life and how to embrace or distance some hobbies, habits or attitudes.
You will also discover your talents. And refine. Opportunities and possibilities.
Are you an extrovert or introvert? Remember many people express traits of both personalities so which is predominant in you? Do you always change jobs in order to run away from just one factor – perhaps sexual harassment from bosses and the like?
Do you always run from frying pan to fire to conflagration? You left one relationship because your boyfriend doesn’t think twice before slapping you; you enter another and that one embarrasses you in public and also slaps you; you left for the third and you landed in the hospital after you had an argument with your partner.
Perhaps in your case it appears you’re a magnet pulling just one class of women – promiscuous women!
When you unravel your own puzzles you’ll understand some people in your circle. Your current partner could be dedicated to your relationship basically because of your money or body and it could be a pattern in your life ….
This discovery is good news, one of the best in your life. Now note gratitude will take you to your dream place in life. Therefore be conscious of people who want you to see thorns in your roses.
In rounding off ‘we are 18+’ might be reviewed to (16+) on this site after all we are enriching lives across miles not corrupting people and we’re explicit enough in spiritual matters to avoid misleading young people. And yes we’d sample opinions on this delicate issue.
Today’s reality is different from decades back.
Many 16-year-olds are in higher institutions – some are doing their A-levels, some are undergoing courses in colleges that will grant them express admission to their host college, some are in ND1, ND2 some are doing their IT, by extension some are in 200, 300 level in the universities.
Practically speaking since we are signals (in the air) we can be accessed by any demographic with smart phone and Internet.
In reality millennials mature earlier than their counterparts in the past!
Happy Sunday to you all.