Our Endless Search for Happiness in Love and Life.
We all desire happiness and we hunt for same in love and life.
Some factors remarkably and massively affect the quality of our life and lifespan and one of them is our intimate partners and many times our life-partners also impact our career, another crucial variable in life.
Many divorce, some quit their jobs, some travel abroad, many leave paid jobs to start their own job; some move from self-employment to paid jobs. Bashir left Kaduna for Calabar … Munir left his iron rod business in Surulere, Ilorin to retail sports wears in Surulere, Lagos and we do all these to woo and win happiness.
We search for happiness in love, on the job … but if we fail to sow happiness inside of us we might not find the happiness we seek outside of us.
Birds of a feather often flock together and if you’re not good as a person you might bring out the worst in your partner; conversely if you’re good you’ll make your partner better.
What am I saying? In so far as you didn’t marry a sadist then try to be better and your ‘better’ will reflect in your partner, children and home. And why? many times we’re our relationships!
@ image: British-born Nigerian actress Beverly Ifunaya Bassey; (photo credit: enwikipedia)
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